Care Article: Family Meetings to Resolve Eldercare Issues


Having Family Meetings to Resolve Eldercare Issues

A crisis can bring a family closer together and illustrate strength and love; or it can drive a wedge of resentment between members. Whenever a loved one’s heath, safety or wellbeing becomes a concern, it is important to be proactive and address your loved one’s issues. If the issues come to a point of crisis, families – often spread out across several states – need to call themselves together to discuss the changes which are occurring and will occur in the future.

Stephen Covey, author of The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People, states: “Most families are managed on the basis of crisis, moods, quick fixes, and instant gratification – not on sound principles. Symptoms surface whenever stress and pressure mount: people become cynical, critical, or silent or they start yelling and overreacting.” If this is how you perceive a family meeting may progress, it is important to understand that it doesn’t have to. You can have family meetings that are under control and structured. Understand that you will never be able to please everyone all of the time, but that you are not meeting to meet your individual needs but those of your aging loved one.

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Posted on June 4, 2010, in Senior Issues and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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